"Some of the places I've lived" continued. As I left off in Part 2 Hans, the children and I were moving from Ontario, CA back to Ogden, UT. in April 1992. When we reached Ogden Hans and some of the children stayed at his parents' home. The other children and I stayed at Hans' sister Renate's. By June Hans' dad and mom had purchased a home on 29th St. for the children and I to rent. That was beyond sweet. Hans and I were still just friends in my mind. I tried to communicate that to his parents.
In July 1992 I got a job as receptionist/secretary at Weber Community Health Center. I could walk to work and worked with some very nice people. I held that job until Sept. 1993.
In August I re-met Jess Ware at a church dance. We new each other from being in the Institute Choral together at Weber State College in 1969. We had a great connection after our second meeting at another dance, 2 weeks after the first. We saw each other almost every day. We fell in love and married on Nov. 9, 1992. Jess has 4 children: Julia was 19 years old, Monica was 16, Rusty was 14 and Jeremy was 10. Julia was engaged to be married and lived at Aaron's house with Jess. The other children lived with their mother in Centerville, UT.
Our next residence was 5599 Le Chateau, Kearns, UT, Jess's good bachelor friend Aaron's home. While living at Aaron's our family was split. Jason and Bryan lived with their father in Ogden. Heather, Kevin, Shane, Jess and I lived with Aaron, soon followed by Tammy and Jeremy. Every other weekend Aaron's home was full. Nine Children would converge for weekend fun. Aaron was very patient. He's such a kind man. During the time we lived at Aaron's Jeff died in Aug. or Sept. 1995. Jess, Heather, Kevin, Jeremy and I went to visit Jeff's mom Marge in Anaheim CA so she and Heather and Kevin could have some healing together. We went up the California coast to visit with Jess's Aunt Erma in Medford Oregon.
In May of June 1997 Jess went to his sister Mary's in Topeka, KS to look for work. He found a job and came back to get us in August 1997. Jess, Jeremy, Bryan, Heather, Kevin and I were bound for Kansas. Tammy went on to live in an apartment with room-mates when she began attending community college. Shane had friends to stay with. Jason also had reason's for staying in Utah. I feel good that this time they each had a choice. We lived at 6799 SW Fieldwood Dr., Topeka from Aug 1997 - July 1999. In May 1998 Jess, the kids and I went to Dallas, TX to visit Jess' brother Richard and his family. While living on Fieldwood Jess changed jobs. He was working in Lawrence, KS but took a job in Lenexa, KS. So he had a long commute. We decided to find a house in Lawrence to rent. We did and moved from Topeka to Lawrence in July of 1999.
When we first got back to Topeka we stayed with friends Gary and his adult son Chris. Their place was not far from the house we lived in on Fieldwood Dr. Jess did get a job and we moved into a rental home in North Kansas City. Jess would get to work in 15 minutes. I didn't go back to work until Sept. 2007. At that time I worked for the North Kansas City School District as a Paraeducator in SPED at Ravenwood Elementary again helping children with special needs. I loved it. I worked this job until my unexpected retirement on Feb. 11, 2013. On a retirement Social Security income would not sustain us living on 23rd Ave. We needed to reduce our utility payments and rent. We looked at apartments in the Northland Lofts and found one that we loved. We moved from our NKC home to the lofts in March 2013.
Our apartment was on the 6th floor. Our 7 large windows faced the east. We had a beautiful view. The loft staff were nice and helpful. We managed to downsize quite a bit before moving. I got some beautiful photos of sunrises, storms, seasons. We seemed to have 4 or 5 notices to get ready for inspections. We had one inspection. The last six months we lived at the lofts someone on our floor was very discourteous about their cigarette smoking and it would waft into our unit. It was not pleasant. They raised the rent on us by $10 that coupled with other things we decided to look into other residential possibilities. Jess came across some information that got his curiosity peeked about looking for a house to buy. That is what we did in Dec. 2013. By the end of February we had contracted to buy a home in Excesior Springs, MO thanks to the excellent work of our wonderful real estate agent Jim Beaty with Reece-Nichols in Kearney. We moved out of the lofts in Mid-March 2014 and into the Fine St. house.
We love living in a home again extra-specially a home we are buying. It is a split-entry home built in 1973. The renovation are coming along slowly. What we have done already, particularly Jess, has made a big, positive difference.
This ends my posts about places I've lived. I wanted to add
relationships, employment and travels to help the reader have a
greater understanding of how each of the places I've lived has
influenced my life. I have omitted some of the places I've
lived. I didn't mention all the places I've worked. Thanks for viewing my posts.